Today I heard a story of a 35 yr old virgin woman who just got her cherry popped by a 28 yr old boy. Like predicted she is in love now.
In love with... the chemical reactions in her brain not this man. Where is the GUIDE TO POPPING CHERRIES and not falling in love? Why do women associate love with the first sexual encounter. Why aren't we given a book on how to get it over with and move on? The little stain of blood, the anticipation, the fear and goosebumps right before the first time are all small players in making you "THINK" you're in love. You're not..especially if you're a 35 year old woman whose vagina has been hungry for so long. Call me a bit jaded but seriously sex is important but it's not love (most of the time). Women associate most sexual acts with attachment where men can just have no attachment and perceive it as just getting their needs taken care of. I'm not trying to start a "slut" aka "liberated women" (according to some men) revolution, I'm just saying that women need to draw the line between getting their needs taken care of and actually thinking they're in love.
You need to have sex BUT you got to want to fall in love.
I would write more but this liberated woman has to start on my first chapter of GUIDE TO POPPING CHERRIES (and not falling in love).
1 comment:
AMEN, sister! We need to not fear our desires and learn to ignore society. Sex is good and it's natural. Love is also good and natural but sex does not = love. Love can = sex but then there's a lot more to it. So, I say we just have sex and be happy. That is all.
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